Sextortion: What is it and how to protect yourself

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Please try to keep yourselves safe by being aware of scams. This is a serious issue which has recently been affecting young people and is, unfortunately, becoming more common.  

The National Crime Agency (NCA) recently issued an alert regarding the rise in sextortion cases worldwide. It is vital that you are aware of what sextortion is, how it happens, and the steps you can take to keep yourself safe. 

What is Sextortion? 

Sextortion is a form of blackmail, where someone threatens to share intimate photos of you without your consent. Once they have the image, they may threaten to make it public or share it with your friends and family unless you meet their demands—often asking for money or further images. We understand this can be deeply distressing, but it is important to remember that you are not alone and there is support available. 

This type of crime can happen to anyone, regardless of age or gender and it is essential that all of us remain aware of the risks. 

Steps to protect yourself 

If you ever find yourself in a situation where someone is threatening you in this way, here are the steps you should take: 

  • Stop contact immediately: Do not engage further with the blackmailer and block them. 
  • Do not pay or send additional images: Complying with their demands often leads to further exploitation rather than a resolution. 
  • Preserve the evidence: Although this can be difficult, it is crucial to keep screenshots and save any messages you receive. This information can assist law enforcement in pursuing the perpetrators. 
  • Speak to someone you trust: This could be a friend, family member, a member of staff here at BU, or STARS Dorset.  

Most importantly, please remember that you are not to blame. Sextortion scammers rely on manipulation and fear to make their victims feel powerless, but there is always help available, and you do not have to face this alone. 

We are here to support you 

We want you to know that BU is committed to supporting you. Our wellbeing services are available for anyone who may need to talk.

If you or someone you know is being targeted, please do not face it alone. Report it to a trusted person, or contact the police.